My Life’s Journey

I was born in Rasharkin, Co. Antrim. My family relocated to Donegal when I was seven. People remark that I still have a Co. Antrim accent which pleases me greatly! I am a frequent visitor to two of the most beautiful places in the world, the North Antrim Coast and Donegal. However, Inishowen holds a special place in my heart.  

I have an insatiable appetite for knowledge and research in the field of human potential. We can be fabulous in every decade of our lives.

My favourite quote is, ‘Sometime in your life you will go on a journey, it may be the longest journey you’ve ever taken, and it is the journey to find yourself’. This informs my personal and professional life. Thank you to the author, Catherine Sharpe.

I have two amazing sisters. My darling mother Rose, who passed away last October, was always proud that we have remained great friends. 

My dad gave me my love of old movies and early musicals. He is alive and well at ninety two years of age. Alexa, along with Ursula & Co, keep him connected to all his favourite 1930’s, 40’s and 50’s tunes.

I love singing and entertaining and especially love to perform songs which inform the soundtrack of all our lives – romantic ballads written by Gershwin and Porter, Rodgers and Harte, the smoldering lyrics made famous by some of my favourite singers, Judy Garland, Barbra Streisand and Ella Fitzgerald.  

The decade I am in is the best yet, fabulous at sixty!

If I were asked what I’d like to be remembered for it would be for being kind and funny!

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 “Little did I know that failing an entrance examination for Secondary school, and then being told by the Principal that pursuing an academic path would be a waste of my time and my parents’ money, would be a defining moment and be the experience that would inform the rest of my life.”

“I’ve only been singing semi-professionally for about ten years and really only been doing it more seriously over five years. And I often think what drives me is that it isn’t just about getting up and singing at a microphone. For me, as well, it is connecting with an audience.”

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 “My Aunt Moira, mam’s sister, was another formidable force. Her husband died young and she ran a very successful bakery and a coffee shop on the North Antrim coast. She started off baking bread in the kitchen at home as well as rearing six children. So, there is a strong line in both families.”

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“There were strong women in the family. My two grandmothers come to mind right away. They were single parents with no benefit system in place at that time. Both their husbands died young and they reared the children. One ran a pub and the other a shop and post office. My father is one of ten children and my mother was one of four.”

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“My friend Brid comes to mind. She was my best friend in Primary School. We were inseparable. We would go to each other’s houses every day after school. I remember I fancied her older brother! Oh, I remember we both had freckles!”  

“I would describe my work as being primarily about people. The values that drive everything are connectedness and people and I’ve probably been like that from I was very young. I remember setting up concerts in the garage where all the local children and our friends would come and perform. And I remember getting a First medal in The Derry Feis. I could have taken on the world that day because you were always told ‘You’ll never beat the Derry ones because they are so good’.”

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“And my mother was very creative. She played the piano by ear and the only time you got to hear her publicly was when she had a wee gin and tonic! She had a natural flair in so many areas of her life. She was very glamorous and great with clothes. She loved cooking and baking. She could have been an interior designer but in the end what she chose was to be a full- time mother and was so proud of her role. A very close friend of hers, who is a talented artist, encouraged her to paint during her Alzheimer’s years. It was so lovely to see her in a happy place painting away and showing natural flair.”

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“Keep an L (for Learner) badge close at hand as a reminder that we are forever scholars and explorers. One of my daily affirmations is, ‘I learn from all life’s experiences’. There isn’t an end game here. Overall, what I would be saying to young women is to remain curious and remember each day is an opportunity to learn more about yourself and the world around you.”

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“Well, I particularly had gremlins going on in my head when I was doing Star Struck, my last show. It was a one woman show where I was stepping out center stage sharing the space with more musicians than I ever had before. One of the thoughts that came to me was, ‘There is probably someone out there saying who does she think she is?’. What gets me past that is reminding myself that it is not just about the performance. It is about entertaining and connecting with an audience and people going away feeling they had a good night out.”

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“I think women are beautiful at every age and I think especially older women who have a sense of themselves. It hard to define what it looks like or what it is but again it is about having a strong sense of being yourself, being yourself and owning it!”

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“The thing I am most proud of is my friendships and the relationships within my family. My sisters and my friends especially continue to inspire me and I am so grateful they are in my life supporting and encouraging every step I take into the unknown. And my father described my friends. He said, ‘If your friends were a football team, you would definitely have the first division’. Isn’t that really lovely! I never forgot that.” 

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