My Life’s Journey

I was born in the ‘Merry Month of May’ to parents with strong community roots, in South Derry, and I think I was born to dance my way through life.

I grew up in Ballynease, on the back of the River Bann, a rural community, where the Tilly lamp remained lit ‘til well after midnight, where neighbours would call in on their ceili, and where story, song and dance lived together.

I am the eldest of nine. I have four brothers and four sisters and we were encouraged to be independent, to amuse ourselves and to create and perform using our God-given talents. 

I went to Teacher Training College in the same year that the war, commonly known as ‘The Troubles’, exploded on to the streets of Belfast. I grew up fast!

I have had lots of adventures, travelled plenty, climbed mountains and paddled a canoe to Toraigh, an island I love. 

I love my daughter and my three sons, adore my three grandchildren, even when they expect me to chase them round the garden!

I am forever curious, though hopeless at remembering facts.

I have many friends, in a variety of countries, with a variety of interests, all of whom bring me inspiration and joy and lots of laughs.

I have been living in the beautiful valley of the River Muff, outside Eglinton, for over forty years and I am no longer considered a blow-in. 

My life is a dance between mammy and granny, home maker and gardener, teacher and therapist, facilitator and performer and I love to dance with my brother.

Seamus Heaney’s epitaph suggests I ‘walk on air’ against my ‘better judgement’ and I will certainly dance on air for as long as I can!

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“In my family anyway, we were all brought up to perform from we were very small. It didn’t matter what we did; sing, dance, act, do a play, make up a pantomime, get dressed up. It didn’t matter what we did. We were encouraged to do it and we were expected to do our party piece. So if there was a concert or funds to be made or a Guest Tea or some priest getting ordained, somebody’s wedding, we had to get up and do the dance. My parents were very community orientated and we were expected to do our bit.”  

“I got an All-Ireland Lifetime Achievement Award in 2016. Along with my brother, both of us got it. It was awarded at the Fleadh in Sligo in 2016. At eighteen I won a Northern Ireland Miss Ceili Competition. As well as dancing I had to speak about my culture and language and I had been talked into it by my dance teacher. I got through the first round and then had to go to Belfast and then I was delighted when I won.”  

“When my brother comes here to stay with me, he and I will talk for hours about dancing. Sometimes it can go on from he arrives. Some evenings it may be eight o’clock and at twelve we say, ‘Maybe we better get off to sleep’. And we get up in the morning and maybe we start again and we have to stop ourselves talking about it because we need to start practicing.” 

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“I dance all kinds of different rhythms. Jigs, reels, hornpipes, mazurkas, two hands, three hands, different set dances. So that is the kind of work I do but I also teach and perform those.”

“I also teach different steps to adults and children and I teach workshops. I now teach workshops on line. I also dance with my brother and the two of us perform together and we sometimes do those workshops together.”

“I did this Irish Sea Sessions in the Philharmonic Hall in Liverpool. I had been asked to go and dance at these three shows but the interesting thing was it was to be like a session. So we only met for a Tuesday. This group of musicians and me, the one dancer, and we had to put the show together for the Friday night. I danced in the Philharmonic Hall on the Friday night and then the Ulster Hall on the Saturday night and then in Derry on the Sunday night.”

 
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 “I think, just have a go and enjoy it. Do something you are enjoying, something that connects you to people as well. I can honestly say that dancing has been fundamental to my wellbeing, to my energy, to my zest for life and it has inspired me in my own way. I feel truly alive.” 

 
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“I’m proudest of having so many good relationships at this stage, of making connections with so many people in all the different spheres of my life. And I’m also very proud of the fact that my family are still great fun and great craic and that we are still alive and well.”

 
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“I would say follow your heart and trust your intuition and bring people into your life if you don’t already have that. People who will support you, encourage you and be there when the times are tough, a shoulder to cry on when necessary and don’t be scared to ask for help.”  

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